Let’s face it, man—the “dinner and a movie” routine eventually gets stale. If you’re looking to inject some serious energy into your weekend without draining your bank account, you’ve gotta try a thrift store date night. It’s part scavenger hunt, part comedy show, and 100% more memorable than another night of Netflix.
The concept is simple: you and your partner head to a local shop to build a ridiculous alter ego costume for each other. Then, you spend the rest of the night out in public “in character.” Trust me, it’s one of the best couples activities you’ll ever do.
How to Plan a Thrift Store Alter Ego Night
Setting the stage is everything. You don’t want to just wander around aimlessly; you need a mission. In fact, having a few ground rules makes the whole experience much funnier.
The Ground Rules
- The Budget: Keep it cheap. Set a limit of $15 or $20 per person for the entire thrift shop outfits.
- The Sabotage: You aren’t picking your own clothes. You pick your partner’s outfit, and they pick yours.
- The Reveal: Don’t look in the mirror until the very end.
- The Commitment: Once the clothes are on, you’re no longer “Dave from accounting.” You’re “Stetson, the retired alligator wrestler.”
Finding the Perfect Funny Thrift Store Date Outfits
When you arrive at the store, split up. You’ve got thirty minutes to find the most absurd pieces possible. Look for those hidden gems—maybe a neon windbreaker from 1992 or a velvet vest that hasn’t seen the sun since the Nixon administration.
Furthermore, don’t just think about the clothes. For example, a weird pair of oversized sunglasses or a battered cowboy hat can instantly define an entire character. Likewise, your partner might find a floral dress or a sequined shawl that turns her into a high-society socialite from a different century.
Creating the Backstory
After you’ve both bought your gear, head to the car and change. This is where the DIY costume date ideas for couples really come to life. Before you go into a restaurant or a bowling alley, give your characters names and histories.
- What’s your job?
- Why are you in town?
- What’s your “special” hobby?
Obviously, the more ridiculous the backstory, the more fun you’ll have when you’re interacting with the world.
Why This Works for Men (and Their Partners)
Let’s be real: most fun things for couples to do on a budget feel a bit cheesy. But this isn’t that. It’s a chance to be creative, act like a fool, and see your partner in a totally different light. In addition, it takes the pressure off “being cool.” You’re already wearing a leopard-print tie and a trucker hat; there’s nowhere to go but up!
On the other hand, if you’re worried about being embarrassed, don’t be. Most people will just think you’re eccentric or assume you’re heading to a themed party. Indeed, the confidence required to pull off a terrible outfit is actually a pretty great look.
Making the Most of Your Night Out
Once you’re dressed and ready, go somewhere public. Hit a dive bar, go to a late-night diner, or even just walk through a crowded park. Ultimately, the goal is to see how long you can stay in character without breaking.
Without a doubt, you’ll end the night with some incredible photos and a story that beats “we just ate pasta” any day of the week. In addition, this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to leveling up your weekend plans.
Check out our full guide to high-energy date nights here!