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Film Festival Fun: First Timers Guide To Cinematic Discoveries!

Have you ever found yourself mindlessly scrolling through streaming services, thinking “There’s nothing good to watch” while surrounded by thousands of movies? Yeah, me too. I used to stick to the same routine every weekend—grab some popcorn, sink into my couch, and settle for whatever looked halfway decent. Then I accidentally discovered something that completely changed my view of movies: film festivals.

And no, before you dismiss this, I’m not referring to highfalutin art house screenings where everyone whispers about “the auteur’s vision.” I’m talking about lively, exciting events where you discover stories that stay with you for weeks. Let me share with you the day that changed my movie habits. 

How A Random Uber Ride Changed My Movie Experience.

I sometimes drive for Uber in Oxford, Mississippi, just trying to make some extra cash and enjoying the social experience with random people. I picked up a young woman, her boyfriend, and her dad, and we started chatting during the ride. Turns out, she was premiering her short film at the Oxford Film Festival that weekend. Her name is Clare O’Connor, and the way she talked about her film—this genuine passion mixed with nervous excitement—well, it was contagious.

She mentioned when her film would be screening, and something about her energy made me want to check it out. So I did something completely out of character: I rearranged my driving schedule to catch her film Kind Mother.

I walked into that theater with zero expectations. But after 15 minutes watching her film, I was floored.  This wasn’t some big-budget production with fancy AI-generated effects. It was a raw, honest, and deeply personal film that caught me completely off guard. Clare, my rider, had written, directed, and starred in it herself along with Kristin Carey. I found myself thinking about it for days afterward, which, let’s be honest, doesn’t happen with most movies I watch.

That’s when it hit me: independent films don’t play by the same rules. They take risks. They tell stories you’ll never see at your local multiplex. Sometimes they say exactly what you didn’t even know you needed to hear.

Real Connections in a Digital World

After the screening, I did something else unusual for me—I stuck around. I found Geoffrey, her boyfriend, and told him how much I loved the film. He asked if he could get Clare, and of course, I said yes. She came out of the theater with her dad, and I was able to tell her, the filmmaker, directly how her film spoke to me on a personal level. There was no red carpet, no security barriers, just genuine conversation. She was interested in hearing what I honestly thought, and we ended up talking like we’d known each other for years.

We’ve stayed in touch ever since. She updates me when her film screens in other cities, and I’ve loved following her journey. There’s something special about feeling like you were there at the beginning of someone’s creative story.

This kind of connection just doesn’t happen during a regular night at the movies. At festivals, filmmakers are right there with you. They do Q&As, share behind-the-scenes stories, and talk about what drove them to create. If you’re curious about the creative process—or just want to understand the “why” behind a film. Film festivals are your chance.

Trailer for KIND MOTHER, a short film by Clare O’Connor

The Energy You Can’t Get at Home

The atmosphere at a film festival is unlike anything else. At Oxford, it felt like everyone—audience members, volunteers, filmmakers—were part of one big, ongoing conversation about storytelling. I saw people comparing notes between screenings, debating endings while getting popcorn at the concession stand, and sharing tips about which films were absolute must-sees.

It’s relaxed, but there’s this shared excitement that builds throughout the day. You might start the morning by yourself, but by evening, you’ve exchanged numbers with someone you bonded with over a particularly mind-bending documentary.

The Best Entertainment Deal You’ll Ever Find

Want to know what else blew my mind? That entire day at the Oxford Film Festival cost me ten dollars. TEN. DOLLARS.

For less than the price of a decent lunch, I had access to an incredible lineup of shorts, features, and documentaries from around the world. I saw films that challenged me, moved me, and stayed with me long after I left the theater.

Compare that to a regular movie night where you’re paying $15+ to see one film, something you may be able to stream on Prime or Netflix in a few months. At a film festival, you’re getting a front-row seat to creativity in its purest form—stories that will probably never make it to mainstream theaters, voices you might never hear otherwise.

Your Turn to Discover Something Amazing

I haven’t found another film festival close since then, but I will be heading back to Oxford for next year’s festival for sure. It set the bar pretty high, and honestly, I’ll be chasing that same feeling—that moment when a story catches you completely off guard and settles into your soul.

So if you’ve never been to a film festival, maybe it’s time. to look one up in your area. Grab a day pass. Go in with an open mind and see what happens.

You might meet a filmmaker whose work opens your eyes to something new.  You might discover your next favorite story. But I guarantee you will fall in love with movies all over again.

If you’re close to Oxford, Mississippi, check out Ox-film.com for next year’s festival dates and line-up. But, even if you’re not close to Oxford, you can still find a film festival by searching filmfreeway.com. Your unforgettable cinematic discovery might be just around the corner.

Trust me—your couch will still be there when you get back, but you’ll see films differently.